dilse....

The other day i was at a coffee shop with my frd

and we came across a table where we saw and guy

and a gal along with their families engaging...

a kande pohe program to be precise, to my non

maharastrian readers....indian traditional dating

where even parents accompany the dating

individuals.


It was amusing at first site...but later it

occur ed to us that both the gal and the guy were

very uncomfortable... she looked very nervous and

the guy was trying his best to keep his wits in

place and act nice.... It was such a sorry plight.

I find this arrangement amusing....i mean why dont

parents understand that these two are grown up

individuals and let them decide for themselves if

they have found their companion...


"Marriage is institution, sacred, holistic...its

made in heaven..its meeting of two souls, another

definition to it...its meeting of two families...


who should one place first....yourself, your family or the society...

If you are compromising your aspirations keeping the family and society interest first are you really contend with it??? Are you willing to play along for a lifetime?? A price you are willing to pay just to be align with the rest...

I really appreciate couples who have gone lenghts to ensure their relationship worksout even if it meant making sacrifices and adjustments...

However I would prefer relationships to be maintained effortlessly something that my frd at work mentioned... how true. Why get into something for the heck of it...life will be more blissful if there is a proper understanding and connection between the two...


I know I am strong headed and confident and but at times i do feel the need for someone's comfort, who is understanding and caring...

you are surrounded by a sea of people love you for what you are but you still long for those strong arms which will embrace you and in his arms, you wish to forget everything and heal your heart....I dont know whether every women thinks like that or is it just my need for the hour....

when I am my own companion, I fantasise a blur image where i find the guy of my dreams holding me in his arms and i can feel the sense of securedness,the comfort, the sheer contentment of knowing somebody is there standing by me, who loves me and would never let me down....

but I guess you only find such guys in your wildest fantasy...or love itself is a fantasy and the joy ride just ended....

I am tired of saying to self "get practical gal, what u r looking for is probably no

more there in this world or probably not meant for me."

I am content with my life but if only i did had a chance to experience the true love...i did end it well. My mind is stupid in spite of being unlucky in love I am still counting my chances....I have hope and that is wat keeps me going....Life at this stage is so uncertain, it sometimes scares me to think what if I dont really ever get to see that day....but i m willing to risk it, Not to comprise I rather stick to my choice.....so where are you my sunshine.....its about time you rise and shine on me....truly, madly and deeply......

new begning 2010...

Calenders are for careful person not passionate ones......

so rightly stated...(yes you will find me saying that at 40 too :))

As we see the days, months and now the year 2009 pass by....
many of us would hear or will be found saying wow time just flies. The last day of 2009 will not be any different from the first day of 2010...the sun will rise and shine, flowers will blossom and year trains will run as per schedule!

Life will remain the same..... What will surely change is the way we look at life once again with renewed passion, setting our goals with timelines and then begin our rush to achieve them. Dekhte hi Dekhte 2010 will go by too. In our rush, we tend to overlook our near and dear ones who contribute to our life in one way or the other...

The say life is a Drama and everybody has a role to play and no matter how insignificant it may seem, it can change the whole climax. People come into your lives and leave their trail. Some cling along while some breakaway in the middle., but the journey of life continues....

My many many thanks to all those who made my life worthwhile... yes you added value and touched my life.Thank you for helping me get my passion back every year...

I Wish and Pray that the year 2010 will endow you and your dear ones with happiness, Prosperity and Good Health.

Have a happy beginning to 2010.